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Being human in an inhuman place.

The world is a cruel place to live in.
We have things we hold close to us, but one can’t deny just how messed up this place is.

Living a meaningful life is probably the toughest thing you’ll have to do when you’re here.

No one wants you to be a fantastic human being. People don’t want to be loved. Because they’re incapable of doing either. They can’t accept what they can’t give.

Whatever you offer will not be appreciated or valued.
You will be treated like bull crap for being a good human, but you know something? Don’t stop being the best person you can be.

Most people you love, won’t love you back. In fact they’ll make you feel bad for being yourself.

The ones who do love you, won’t be around forever.
You won’t have it in you to stand back up, dust your bum and try to be as loving a person again, right from scratch.
But you’ve got to do it anyway.

Because courage is not the absence of fear, but the knowledge that something else is more important than fear.

The fear of not being loved in return, of not having the one you love around forever will come back to you every now and then. But this world needs people like you, who love with all their heart, for whom being a good person is the most important thing above all.

After being hurt innumerable times, being rejected by people over and over, you won’t believe this, but this world needs YOU.

Because darkness doesn’t drive out darkness, only light does that.
Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that.

There aren’t too many people who understand what really matters, why we’re all here.

Be exactly the beautiful human you are today, because this world needs you.

More importantly, be what makes you happy because the day you look into the mirror, you want to be able to smile at yourself and know that you wouldn’t have done anything any other way.

The world will screw you over, but be the best person you can be, so that the day you look back, you’ll be proud of the person you’ve been all along.

Posted in life, solitude

Life as we know it

We’re so used to turning to other people for  happiness. We’ve forgotten that at some point of time we will be alone. And that point in time will come way too many times than we think is possible : )

He.
She.
They, won’t be there to make you happy.
You will have to make do with just yourself for company on most days.
You will have to look for tiny nothings that make you smile, what is it about you, the qualities you possess which make you smile at yourself with pride.

Start with spending some time with yourself doing something you like, like reading a book, drawing creepy people, analyzing human behavior.
Sometimes, do nothing at all. Just breathe. Over analyze life, if that’s what you do. Just do what you love.

Do this while you still have people in your life so that you learn to maintain a balance between the world and your tiny world, so that on days when the world crashes, you’ve still got your world to go to, the one you’ve built for yourself.

The more time you spend with yourself, you discover how strong you are, how much it takes to break you, how you deal with a broken version of yourself, how you believe, how you cope.

You will get to know the unknown and probably sometime in the future you will realize that it was this knowledge that actually got you through the mess.

Don’t fear being alone. It’s what’s going to help you grow and get through anything at all.

You’re alone, not lonely.
You’ll know the difference soon enough.

Meanwhile, breathe in the smell of wet mud, take in the cool air and touch the earth with your bare feet.
And if possible. paint your house today : )

Posted in life, solitude

Let’s love again

Each time I disappear for a long time, I come back with a bigger realization than the previous one.
We don’t have forever to do everything we want to.

We’re going to die.
We’re going to get old.
We’re going to give up.

And then, there will be thousands of regrets regarding things you wanted to do, people you wanted to be with, feelings you should have expressed. We leave things undone in the hope of one day, when it may seem like the right time.

Don’t wait for a right time. Now is as good a time.
You don’t have tomorrow. You only have right now.

One can never have enough of love. If there’s one thing you must do, its to love people unconditionally. If not everyone, have at least one person who you love like that.

Nothing makes you feel as happy and content as being able to love unconditionally and being able to express the same.

Take a lot of time out from watching the news and cribbing while cooking for the family and express love.

It doesn’t take much. Trust me.

Posted in life, Women

Be

There are I don’t know how many billion people on Earth right now, because I admit I’m not good with statistics and math, who are trying to be good enough for somebody else.

There’s one thing I’d like to tell them.
Honey, it ain’t worth it.

Scenario number 1.
No one cares. They’re busy doing whatever they’re doing.

Scenario number 2.
No matter what you do, there will always be someone who’s better.

Scenario number 3.
Your good enough isn’t good enough for them.

Trying to please your mom with that recipe you got off the internet? The salt will always be less.

Wanting to be the best girlfriend by repeatedly expressing your feelings, sexy lingerie and trying to be understanding? Naah, that still won’t help.

Keeping your life on hold to be there for your friends? You’re in for disappointment.

Sometimes no matter what you do, you aren’t going to be able to change a thing. Let alone how people perceive you.

And what’s the point of trying to be good enough for someone, anyone else?
It sure doesn’t make you feel happy, when your efforts are overlooked and considered no big deal.

Why do we try being better for other people? Because we want to be accepted.

Then why is it, that we can’t accept ourselves for who we are?

Why can’t we make an effort to be good enough for ourselves?

Because accept it girl, no matter what you do, you won’t be able to hold his attention for longer than 2 minutes when he doesn’t want to listen.
And there will be someone way hotter than you, for your boyfriend to drool over.

Your recipe won’t be good enough for your mother. Ever.

And you sure as hell won’t be the person your friend chooses to spend time with.
It’ll always be Testes over Besties.

Might as well be good enough for yourself.
Don’t you think?

Posted in life, solitude, Uncategorized

Haappyy

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After a while, we stop looking for happiness around us because it takes a lot of effort.
We get so busy hating everything around us, hating our day, our routine that we can’t spot happiness.
There’s one thing you shouldn’t ever forget. To be happy : )
Why? Because is there any better way to be?

Which other state of being makes you feel so free, so much at peace?
And isn’t that what everyone is looking for? Inner peace ?

You have a routine. It will get probably get monotonous.
Your job might get to you, your hair might not behave. But all of these won’t go away.
Issues will come back to you in some form or the other.

All you can do is make a choice. To be happy or not.
And it isn’t very difficult to spot happiness even on the most pathetic of days.
HE knows how much I understand how pathetic it feels to have a fixed routine. It’s lethal.

Look around you but with an open mind : )
You shall spot it alright.

Here’s a little something to help you take the first step. Sign up and transform each day!
http://www.100happydays.com

Posted in crazy, Inspiration, life, memories, solitude, Women

2014 :)

And its time for yet another beginning 🙂

Are you ready to give yourself your very best? Because you’re definitely wasting that effort trying to please other people.

Promise yourself that this year, you will give your best to yourself. You will love every bit about yourself. Whether its that ugly paunch, or your not so perfect nails.

Live this one for yourself 🙂

Happy New Year : )

Posted in life, Society, Women

Are you strong?

Strength till date has always been measured in terms of who can beat the shit out of more people or who can lift more weights.

What exactly is strength?
Wait, I’ll tell you. Strength is the capacity each of us have to withstand great force or pressure, says Google.

So if this is strength, then I’m already a lot stronger than you are, because I’m born a woman.

I’ve been told to take shit almost daily. Because supposedly that comes with being a woman.

Like pregnancy and periods weren’t enough, I’ve been asked to treat sexism as a part of life. Oh sorry! As a way of life.

I’m supposed to be okay with you telling me that I bring rape upon myself by wearing what I please. Actually, it must be a compliment you’re giving me, that I make all men sin. Sweet!

Just a tiny question. All of you who give me advice on what to wear and where to go, how exactly are you different from those eyes out there, when all you’ve been doing all day is oggle at various pairs?

You might need those muscles to prove how strong you are. For me, my knowledge is enough.