We go about everyday life under the impression that no one is watching over us, noticing what we do. We don’t do better, thinking how does it matter, not like its getting registered anywhere.
People get tired of being nice when niceness is not reciprocated. Forget reciprocating, no one appreciates it. They get upset and hurt. And its very difficult for them to continue on the same path. And that’s when the bitter attitude comes in and mean behaviour strikes!
Don’t stop being nice. You are going to come across rude people, mean people, just not bothered people. Don’t let them kill your inner light.
At such times, remind yourself why you chose to be nice in the first place.
Some reasons I can think of,
– I like being nice. Its who I am.
– Earth could do with a little niceness.
– Being nice is the way to be.
– Because I have no reason to be otherwise.
– It makes me happy.
Then think of who you do this for. The first reason better be, for yourself. Because I’m fed up of saying, be who you want to be and do what makes you happy.
You’re bound to get frustrated after a point, if you’re doing it for anyone else.
Be nice because it makes YOU happy. It’s how and what You want to be. Everything else comes in later.
You took a step forward, He noticed.
Stopped by to smile at a baby, He saw that. Stole a candy from your sister? He saw that too, idiot.
You don’t see Him in the tiny things that happen around you. He IS being there. He makes his presence pretty obvious. You need to look more closely.
Fell down from the bed, and banged your elbow on the side table? You were hurt, yes. But, it could’ve been worse. You could’ve hit your face, your eyes damaged.
Instead of what happened, why not think of what didn’t happen?
Its because He’s there for you and gives you only as much as you can take, that you don’t realize how bad things could have been.
Somewhere each of us want to be rewarded for the good we do. Probably our reward is a very happy everyday life or being able to find happiness in the tiny things we do?
He’s watching you, whether you believe it or not.
He registers your niceness. Whether they register it or not. Trust me