Life as you’ll know gets pretty unpredictable. And before you know it, you’re walking down a path its laid out for you.
On most occasions, you can’t get a grip of what’s happening, at the turn your life is taking.
And maybe, you might never be able to. That feeling is extremely unsettling. But probably a few years down the line, when you look back, you might be able to connect the dots. You might be able to figure why whatever happened, happened, how it affected you and how it slowly helped you build a path to the way out. And maybe then, it’ll all look worth it.
Also, you don’t realize how much of a control freak you’re becoming day by day in the tiny things you do.
You might want something to go a particular way, and it just won’t. In your mind you know its tiny, but you make it seem bigger, more important than it actually is.
We give so much importance to the most irrelevant things that we do everyday, that we forget what’s really important.
We need to understand that sometimes, things won’t go our way; What we want the most, we won’t get.
Life will take its turn.
And those times we need to tell ourselves that its okay.
It’s going to be fine.
Its not a big deal.
And heaven’s got a plan for us : )
And maybe one day when you’re seeing clearly you’ll realize that some of your wants were stupid and not that important.
Because in the end, it all comes down to how much you believe in what you say, in what you do and in what you stand for. Nothing else matters except belief.
And when you truly believe, you know that one day, its all going to be a happy.
So until then why not live it all, even with the imperfections!
Why not make the most of every single imperfection that comes your way?
After all isn’t it said that the best time is the journey and not the destination?
Please remember: You are imperfect permanently and inevitably flawed. And you are beautiful : )
Quoting Amy Bloom.
Also here’s a link to a really fabulous post by Malti Bhojwani, on idiva.com
Its beautiful : )
Until next time : )